Yes to the dress? "The wedding of the century" 40 years on
This week marks 40 years since the wedding of Prince Charles to Lady Diana Spencer at St Paulâ€™s Cathedral on 29th July 1981.
2021 also holds extra significance for us here at Adam Matthew as the 40th anniversary of the relaunch of Mass Observation by David Pocock and Dorothy Sheridan through the Mass Observation Project. Earlier this year we published the second module of Mass Observation Project, 1981-2009 which provides digital access to the directives (questionnaires) sent to hundreds of observers, together with their responses. The idea for a relaunch had arisen in 1977, but the organisers decided that the Royal wedding was the ideal occasion upon which to recommence Mass Observationâ€™s â€śanthropology of ourselvesâ€ť. The first of the revived directives sent to Mass Observers read:
Dear Observer, We have had very mixed reports in anticipation of the Royal Wedding on 29 July and we have decided to conduct a Day Survey to assess the balance of feeling and I hope you will also be interested [â€¦] If the Royal Wedding does not affect your day that is just as important as if it does; whatever you are doing we would like to hear about it.
To mark the anniversary of their parentsâ€™ wedding, Princes William and Harry have loaned Dianaâ€™s wedding dress to be displayed at an exhibition at Kensington Palace, her former home. The dress, which was designed by David and Elizabeth Emanuel, has been described as â€śamong the most famous in bridal historyâ€ť by the organisers of the exhibition â€“ but what was the response to it at the time, by the â€śordinaryâ€ť people writing to the Mass Observation Project?
The televised ceremony was watched by an estimated global audience of 750 million people (for context, itâ€™s estimated that 600 million people watched the final of Euro 2016). A number of observers reference their experiences of watching the ceremony on either black and white or colour televisions, with some noting that they sourced a colour television specifically to watch the wedding. Aptly, the colour of Dianaâ€™s dress is a popular topic among responses. Observer F193 approved of the ivory tone, writing â€śvery few people can wear white and from an historical view it will keep its colourâ€ť, however B45 describes speaking to others who declared â€śshe should have stuck to the traditional whiteâ€ť.
Responses to the wedding range from disapproval, through indifference to complete admiration. Many observers seem to have had their imaginations entirely captured by the dress and other scenes from the day â€“ B45 wrote that â€śthe bride looked like the fairy princess of our childhood story booksâ€ť; a sentiment echoed by S481, whose daughter adds that:
Itâ€™s every girlâ€™s dream of her wedding day, being acted out for her. Everythingâ€™s perfect, a handsome prince, a lovely bride in a fairy-tale dress, and lots and lots of friends. The only real difference is, itâ€™s bigger, but really itâ€™s the same for us all.
Certainly, with its 25-foot train â€“ the longest in royal wedding history â€“ the dress, and wedding, were â€śbiggerâ€ť in more ways than one. After the wedding in 1981, Dianaâ€™s dress, together with wedding presents for the couple, were exhibited at St Jamesâ€™s Palace. A14 recalls visiting the exhibition, noting that â€śthe show-case was far too small, and the train of the Princessâ€™s dress was bunched-up, instead of being displayed to its full extent and beautyâ€ť. Hopefully if A14 was to revisit the dress this year she would be more impressed.